Hello,

I have an amazing boyfriend!  We are just amazing in bed together, simply the best I have ever had, the sex is spectacular.  We have tried everything from role playing, to light bondage, to #%$@ sex (on me, the woman).

He loves when I go down on him and I just love to go down on him as well.  But this weekend I just really want to knock his socks off!

I want to try a prostrate message;

I know that I have to use plenty of lube and start by rimming the anus with my tongue, piece of cake . . . but then what?  Should I use a simple in and out motion, should I twirl my finger once it is inside him ?  How will I know if I have hit the prostate? 

Please help!

J