This is unusual but there could be so many many reasons.  Firstly you will need to discuss this fully with your wife.  If you are young and inexperienced and perhaps a virgin then you will need to learn some more to give you confidence.  If you are older it would be wise to have a check up with your GP to ascertain your testosterone levels and to make sure that there is nothing underlying your disinterest.  Stress and lifestyle play a part too and you can look at these areas.  I suggest for technique on how to make love that books or DVDs will be helpful.  Our section on the site is very comprehensive.  There are books on low libido and these are written for men too and will explain in more detail.

If all else fails you should seek professional qualified help from a psychosexual therapist and I can recommend one for you in your area.

Mary Clegg